GIRLS — if you hit, slap, belittle, kick, punch, choke, throw things at, or control your boyfriends, you are the abuser. You are not a “strong woman”, “empowered”, or anything similar. You are hurting him. Even if his muscles are strong enough to take it, a hit or slap from someone you love is an emotional blow.

Written by a girl who’d never hit a guy.


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Anonymous asked:

Why do some guys dislike girls who lift?

Dave Answer:




The idea of being weaker than their girl makes their penis sad.

Let’s start with the fact that not all guys dislike women who lift. Second, if a guy does dislike a woman who lifts, it could be because they aren’t physically attracted to them, don’t like their personality, etc.

I am so tired of people making men out to be mindless misogynists whose idea of a good life is the relentless, total suppression of women. Not every guy is a chauvinist, the same way not every woman is a slut. For some reason society feels the need to perpetuate both of these ridiculous ideas and literally NO ONE benefits from this, not men (at least not all men, despite what some may think), and not women.

The problem is that no one truly wants positive equality. Each opposing group just wants the freedom to get away with the same ignorance that has been directed at them. That’s idiocy, not equality.

The Golden Rule is a thing for a reason.

QUICK untwist your panties and go lift something before your girlfriend catches up to you